Baby it’s you!
I was a little nervous about my 20 week scan. No real reason I suppose, other than over thinking things that could potentially be wrong. It’s hard to know if I’m doing this pregnancy thing ‘right’, and so I quite like the reassurance from appointments and scans.
This one was amazing! It was incredible seeing baby in such detail. Little legs and feet, arms and hands flailing around. A real outline of a face. Even seeing the spine was amazing. I could watch that scan all day!
Then the sonographer showed us something else.. ‘You see that little bit sticking out’ she said… ‘It looks like it’s a boy!’
It’s been a fairly uneventful week, with hubby away and me just plodding along at work.
One new thing I’ve noticed this week is my extremely heavy pulse, that I can literally feel pumping through me at times, usually just after I’ve eaten. My tummy enlarges throughout the day with food (ok, and gas.), and at times it feels like my belly is this massive pulsating bulge. A quick google search and a looksie on some of the mummy noticeboards tells me that its all to do with the increase of blood moving around my body. This (in hindsight quite obvious) revelation has made me feel a little better – I’ve been getting paranoid about any little thing lately.
It’s been six weeks since my scan, and I suppose it just feels like a long time. I’m ready for the next one, to check everything is ok. But not long now, just a week to go until we meet baby Lupin again. So now I need to think of how to break the news. The boy or girl news. How did you share this with people?
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It’s in the Genes
Pregnancy week 17 started off with a visit to the consultant. It turns out I’ve got fibroids, which isn’t all that surprising really. Both my mum and my grandmother ended up having hysterectomies due to fibroids, so I guess I’ve always been expecting them to turn up.
Luckily; 1. treatment and technologies have changed and improved massively in the 20 years since my mum had to have her op, and 2. mine are only tiny at the moment and not looking like they are going to cause problems during this pregnancy.
It means I’m advised to have ‘the injection’ (something I need to research, I’ve been avoiding too many details until necessary), and that a home birth is probably not a good idea (that’s fine with me). The bonus is that I’ll have an extra scan at 34 weeks. An extra chance to meet baby before we meet for real.
Hubby has been away for work, and I’ve been hanging out lots with my parents! (Rock n Roll) In fact, I took my dad along to a gig in hubby’s absence. We saw Baxter Dury at Village Underground, and it made me wonder. Is baby ok in there? My weekly pregnancy email told me that baby can hear now, and that loud noises might make little Lupin jump. I didn’t think much of it, until I was in a small venue with music vibrating through my whole body. I could feel it in my chest, and was suddenly worried that I was scaring baby. What are your experiences of gigs during pregnancy?
My other mission this week has been trying to find petite maternity jeans. Well to be honest I’ve been quite unsuccessful so far. Where the hell do short girls get their maternity jeans? It feels like as soon as you become pregnant, retailers think that you don’t care about your style anymore. Everything seems to be the same, and all a little bit boring. ASOS have the best selection so far, and Topshop has the odd piece that I love, but no petite jeans? Come on chaps – short girls get pregnant, too!
I don’t think I have long before I have to give up my current wardrobe completely. If you have any tips for petite maternity wear, I’d love to hear them.
Cravings are one of the most asked about parts of pregnancy, or so I’ve found so far. People get excited to hear if you’ve been craving anything bizarre. And so far I’ve been telling people ‘well, I don’t think I’ve had any cravings.’
I suppose I’ve always expected that cravings during pregnancy would be a bit mental. Things I usually can’t stand, mixed in with just plain weird. Like an avocado and egg sandwich or something. That just sounds awful.. and so, no, I haven’t had any of those kind of cravings.
But what I am starting to notice that actually I’m kind of craving everything. Whenever someone mentions a food type to me, I want it.
I read an email from ‘Emerald Street’ the other day that was talking about honey. Lovely amazing honey. I bought some on my way home from work. Today my colleague mentioned doughnuts, and I considered popping to the shop to get one. Any hint of Nutella, peanut butter, or even marmite on toast gets me excited. Don’t even get me started on pancake day. In. The. Diary.
To be fair, most of my examples have been quite tempting foods already… so does that count? Or do I just want all of these things because I know that I should be being a bit more sensible and skipping on some of the treats I might otherwise find an excuse to have?
What have been your craving experiences during pregnancy?
Last week hubby and I went along for our 12 week scan.
I have to say I was quite nervous about this. I was desperate for the confirmation that I was pregnant. Peeing on a stick and a lack of period didn’t feel like enough. What if I’d got it all wrong? I was terrified of going in there not finding anything. So it was a great relief, and almost numbing to see that tiny baby on the screen.
I was a bit quiet and nervous, and couldn’t believe my eyes when I saw baby so clearly. Somethings weren’t so clear, to us at least. The sonographer kept saying “…and thats the tummy, see?” well, no I didn’t really get what I was looking at, but I smiled and nodded, and was very pleased when she showed us baby’s two arms and two legs.
I had to go straight to work after the appointment, and was basically waiting the whole day to go home and look at the pictures again, take it all in. I love our little print out – our first baby portraits. And so clear! I was expecting to see a bit of a blur, but I can see a real outline of baby’s face.
Phew. 12 weeks complete, and I couldn’t be happier.
As you can imagine, I’ve been going crazy on Pinterest recently, looking at cute baby type things. Nurseries, outfits, accessories etc.
One thing that has caught my eye are these adorable birth announcement photos. What a cute way of sharing your news! And a lovely little keepsake for baby, and yourselves, once they’re all grown up.
Husband and I went travelling around New Zealand at the beginning of this year, and hubby was obsessed with neatly presented photographs of the contents of his bag. It was like his way of saying ‘Look, I’m going on an adventure’. Well what bigger adventure can there be, than becoming a parent!?
We’ll definitely be creating our own version of this, once our little Sparrow arrives.
Please come and join me at my new home…